For leading, the operative word is "Lead". Not push, force, scare, threat and the like. People must choose to willingly follow the path that a leader puts forward. This of course can range from being a zombie and just follow whatever... to being enthusiastic about the journey. In your workplace which are you? Employee's get a paycheck, security and healthcare. Because of this management sometimes think that you should be happy at work. (most of the time it the non-actual work items that make people unhappy at work, not the actual work they do). But there are other parties in the company that can undermine happiness at work. One of these is HR. The same HR department that literally is called "Human Resources" like it's for the employee is really mostly there to protect the company and NOT on the side of the employee. A person can not serve two masters, the HR department servers the company. If there is an issue between the employee and employ